The Only 3 Essential Oils you Need


Lavender, lemon, and frankincense essential oils, the only three essential oils you need.

  1. Lemon or other citrus oil (tangerine, bergamot, grapefruit, or sweet orange).

    Citrus oils are safe during pregnancy and for children over 3 months. Citrus oils are uplifting. Lemon is a great choice for nausea, or an afternoon pick-me-up. Lemon essential oil can be used to clean and removes odors. It can be added to oil to polish furniture or mixed with water and sprayed to remove bad odors.

    The main caution with citrus oils is that they are photosensitive, which means if you wear them on your skin, they will increase your chances of becoming sunburned.

  2. Lavender for letting go.

    You open up a bottle of lavender, smell it, and go “Ahhhh” It’s perfect to calm anxiety and soothe nerves.

    Lavender was the first essential oil to be studied for it’s medicinal benefits. Lavender promotes relaxation and is wonderful on a cotton ball inside a pillow to aid sleep. Lavender soothes burns. It is safe for children but can cause uterine contractions, so is not to be used during pregnancy until after 37 weeks gestation.

    During labor, lavender promotes a feeling of calm and encourages progress in a gentle way.

  3. Frankincense

    Of course frankincense always reminds us of the three wise men in the Christmas story. Frankincense has been used for hundreds of years in Ethiopia. Ethiopians use the frankincense sap to fill their homes with a beautiful smoky aroma during their traditional coffee ritual. They also use the smoke of the sap to flavor their butter.

    Frankincense is very safe for children and during pregnancy. It is anti-aging, promotes skin integrity, and has been shown to shrink multiple types of cancer, including pancreatic, and skin.

    Frankincense can be blended with oils or salves and applied to the skin. I think of it as an oil that creates sacred spaces.

    How do you use essential oils? Do you have two or three go-tos?